Submission is a Gift

Cliché of give me a break or is their true affection and meaning in the term

This may be the most mentioned cliché and most people call bogus cliché as well. The truth in my opinion is not any one true meaning but how people interject themselves into a power exchange relationship.

There are two types of people that this term means nothing if they utter it:

1) They will act and be submissive to a person at the drop of a hat. Pretty simple if one is acting and being submissive to a dominant right from the get go or before knowing and developing feelings for the dominant then your submission is at best a very cheap gift. This is why many dominants that are looking for actual relationships that hopefully are long term will ignore and make fun of men who communicate from the start like they are already deeply submissive to them. It simply comes off as a game learned by men who spent more time in chat rooms with players.

2) I am never ever going to actually be submissive in terms of doing something I do not want to do but do it for you anyway. These are the opposite of #1. They use this cliché in order to string along someone they are interested in that wants to start putting some power exchange in their relationship or someone like a cyber player who want attention but does not want to really talk about the life so they talk make state this cliché as a warning not to talk about power exchange.

At best these people are genuine betas but are only going to do submissive things when and how they feel like it.

Can submission be a gift?

Most definitely!

If the submissive when developing feelings for their dominant chooses and needs to actually be submissive to them PERSONSALLY and not to just the general idea of being submissive then to me it can be quite the special gift. Over time I have heard the question how can a male slave have a backbone or come off as “normal”. Well this is often where it is determined.

When a submissive wants and needs to be submissive out of feelings then it is not an act or some role playing situation and it becomes about being submissive to the person that is dominant. The cliché of gift giving that it is the thought that counts you can switch one word and go the gift of submission is the desire to that counts. It can only be special and touching if the submissive does not throw it around offering it up to anyone.

This is also why the #2 I wrote about mean nothing as if one has feelings one would desire to be actually submissive at least in some ways and not just keep it just out of reach of the dominant. Submission comes from the person as who they are but in addition to how they feel about the other. Because when you are being submissive to just anyone it is not a gift because you are not giving anything away but when giving actual submission and therefore power over to your dominant because you want and need to makes it a gift.

FYI: I am in a stretch of some busy times and might be less prolific with my quantity of posts so please do not expect them to be as frequent as they have been. Lastly I want to thank all the regular readers of my blog, I have been surprised and touched just how many there are of you and I have only been posting for a real short time, thank you very much.