FAQ: More Me

Thought I would take a break from the chastity postings and do something short and answer a few common questions I have gotten over time that popped into my head for various reasons.

Why do you use pretty crude words fairly easy like cock, pussy and piss?

For many of you it might be surprising that indeed I have gotten this question three times since starting the blog and back in the day of my local community participation got it quite a bit. It is quite amazing that a man wants someone like me to sit on their face and wiggle amongst other things but still cannot handle women who can express themselves verbally or in words sexually.

I could go on about equality, reality, direct communication and the modern world but at the core of my being direct with using these words is a simple psychological trick. As a doctor and maybe as one that works in an ER I spend many hours using the medically correct terms like breast, penis, scrotum and vagina among the many. Throw in where I work being indirect and take five words when one word will do is not a good way to go. So quite simply I am use to being direct and like to be able to remove the doctor in me when talking about sex and kink.

Trust me having to exam rape victims I want to remove the meaning of the medical terms in my personal life by referring to the slang.

Why did you become a doctor and why the emergency medicine?

Nurture and nature as it is all I knew. Mom is a RN and my dad is a doctor. Both worked in the same hospital which was therefore somewhat a pivotal part of growing up. I am a total Daddy’s girl right down to be burdened by becoming a Cubs fan for all the games I attended with him. The highlight of my fifteenth birthday was my mom taking me to the hospital to sign up to volunteer as fifteen being the age limit. I only have known wanting to be a doctor and work at a hospital.

My first choice heading into medical school was to be an oncologist shockingly the same as my dad. But when I battled cancer and survived but was left with a not so pleasant long term look out I just lost interest/could not handle dealing with cancer everyday and need to escape as best as I can. During med school when I got exposed to an ER I simply knew I had found my place and never have looked back.

Does your sex tend to be of the kinky variety with your slave or mostly regular and on occasion kinky?

First I have never quite figured out what was exactly kinky sex to a certain extent. I mean some people think anal sex is kinky and some think whatever. The best way to answer this is most actual sex things being done would be things that “regular” people do. Now a lot of foreplay/getting in the mood might be on the kinky side. I mean I have a slave I get to do what I want with, I am a sadist and I am not in the power exchange life to copy a regular life. One of my motivations to writing this blog was to shout from a pedestal that there are dominant women who do the kinky things because they truly love to do them and not out of doing them to keep getting spoiled and for free labor.

Now when some extended kinky thing is being done and/or something intense that goes into domination and leads to something sexual then more often then not I would classify kinky sex. Things like fucking my man while he is tied up or he is doing me or eating me out while wearing woman’s lingerie and things like that.

But most of life my favorite abuses of my power are for things like forced cuddle time and massages that magically end up sexual somehow.